Friendship… um..very hard to describe in words!In today’s world,there are hardly people who know the real meaning,emotions and value of friendship. Let;s start with our school times.During our good old school days,it was always like the person who is mu bench partner is always my best friend.Nothing different happened in my case.I even remember people getting jealous when your best friend talks to any other girl/boy like he/she converses and spends time with you.As and when we grow up,we make a best of kinda a unique relation with our friends.Our world would revolve always around them,since not only in school but also in classes we used to be together.In true sense,the world was round and small.Innocence,affection,generosity,caring nature was by default in us towards our friends.Everything was natural..the exposure to the outside world is yet not in the picture.. To begin with the end of school times,we get an exposure to the big and gross outside world.We meet n number of people everyday and in every mode of life.We become excited a bit and here we start to kill the purity of FRIENDSHIP.We think that having a large number of people as our friends is one of the most coolest thing anyone can have.No doubt it is….but here element of innocence,reliability is nowhere to be seen.People become schizophrenic.They get confused within themselves.Peace of mind is never attained.You try to search that innocence,love,affection,faith in the relation.but its already lost.You crave to again live that school life and have those friends again.No doubt,your school friends do remain in touch with you.But the 100% guarantee reduces to 95% as career and different roads to success stand as a hurdle.You feel left out all alone. According to me,friendship is not only about the words that describe them,but about the people,their emotions.Emotions play an important role whereas logic and practical reasons have no place.Having a large bunch of friends is absolutely cool and good but having a few friends who understand you,make you feel special,care for you are very rare and more cooler. As it is said,friendship is a treasure…we need to find it which is not at all that easy.It’a matter of luck and destiny.We may tie a ribbon or band or for that matter pen down our names on each others hands..but our true friends have already tied those directly to our hearts. At last,we must always be thankful and grateful to people who make our life pretty good and make us feel happy everyday,because they are the charming gardeners that make our souls blossom..!!
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